What I learned after 15 styled shoots in 3 months.

Yep, styled shoot floral design was my thing this past winter and spring in locations around Virginia and North Carolina. Being asked to be a part of so many shoots was an amazing feeling and I said yes to every request. 15 total up to now. Am I crazy? Probably. Was it stressful? Um, very. Worth it? YES! And I'll tell you why. 

Weddings are of course priority for all of us. Our brides will always come first as they are our means of income, but brides come and go. We hope that they will refer us to their friends, but the truth is they aren't around forever. You know who will be around? Other vendors. The relationships that you create with others in the industry whether they are photographers, graphic designers, calligraphers, or planners are priceless. Finding those that you click with both personally and creatively? Even better. And one way to curate those partnerships? Styled Shoots. The connections I have made networking with other vendors through Styled shoots has really made One Sweet Day in May become what it is. Sure, I've gotten beautiful images of my work and have been featured on multiple wedding blogs, but my main reason for doing shoots is to work with and cultivate those oh so important relationships. 

Photo By Shalese Daniels Photography

Photo By Shalese Daniels Photography

I collected some thoughts and advice on styled shoots that I thought I'd share with you, things that if you're planning your first one, may help you. For the most part I've been the one creatives have been coming to, but I have also put on 2 of my own and I was the one reaching out to others. So for starters...

JUST ASK.

Asking vendors to be involved in your styled shoot is scary. So scary, but just ask. Something I've found in this industry is that when you put yourself out there, most of the time you'll be pleasantly surprised at the outcome. You'll of course hear the word no sometimes, but when you do, just know that it's not a no to you and don't take it personally. Most likely the person you've reached out to is super busy and their schedule just won't allow it. The way you present yourself initially is important. Always be professional and let them know why you are interested in them being on board. Maybe you saw a wedding they just shot and love their photography style, maybe they're a planner and you love how creative they are. Tell them. If you get a no, they will still be flattered and will remember your sweet Email. Be sure to include your idea, other creatives that are on board, and any other important details. Which leads me to my next point...

HAVE A THEME.

When you reach out to fellow vendors, be sure to have your thoughts collected. You should have a theme and a date, an inspiration board, and ideally a venue. Those should be set so when you meet with your other "styled shoot teammates" you can give them a really good idea of the direction you want to take the shoot. You don't need to have every detail figured out as shoots evolve the further you get into planning (similar to a wedding) but nothing is more frustrating when you meet with someone who wants to do a shoot and they really don't have any concrete ideas or anything planned. We love styled shoots because it really gets our creative juices flowing, so once you've got your theme down, let your team do what they do best. There's nothing better than collaborating with fellow creatives who build off of each other's ideas and bring fresh new perspectives to really take your ideas to next level. Teamwork makes the dreamwork. 

 

IT'S HARD TO BE ORIGINAL.

The best advice I can give here is to have a theme and make it your own. Everything has been done, but that doesn't mean it's off limits. Just think if no one ever did beach shoots because one already existed. We'd be missing out on some incredible inspiration that's for sure! You can do whatever you wish! That's what's so great about shoots. There is no limit. So take a not so original idea and put your own twist on it. It's so refreshing to see new takes on things and it's a surefire way to get featured. Another great tip? If you are just starting out and this is maybe your first shoot, create a shoot that speaks to your ideal client. These images will undoubtably be on your website so produce something that relates to your brand. Think of location you'd really like to coordinate a wedding in, or choose colors that are your brand specific. You're putting this out there for the world to see, you want it to reflect who you are as a business. 

 

CREATE A STORY.

Sometimes it's not enough to just have pretty images and gorgeous details. Those things are super important, but it helps to create a story through them so that when a blog editor or a bride is looking through the post, they feel connected to it and gain inspiration for their own wedding. Styled Shoots should be something different and unique, but they also have to be attainable for brides. It takes a lot of planning to create a story within your theme, but it's so worth it. One of my favorite shoots that does this perfectly is Kat of Dear Sweetheart Events' With You I'm Home. It tells a story of a bride wishing she were with her groom for Christmas. It's simple yet relatable. Put yourself in a bride's shoes. If you were a bride looking through the gallery of your shoot what would you want it to look like? Maybe your doing a backyard wedding inspiration shoot. Think of what would be involved in making a backyard wedding happen in real life. I'm thinking adorable DIY details and a bride getting ready in the home she grew up in. Use your vendors to give you ideas and through some brainstorming and creativity, you'll get your story. 

Behind the scenes of a styled shoot last month with Natalie Jayne Photograpy.

Behind the scenes of a styled shoot last month with Natalie Jayne Photograpy.

 

I hope this helps in some small way! Happy Wednesday my friends! It's rainy and gloomy here today, but I'm off to run some errands with my rain boots on and looking forward to date night with the hubs tonight. Rainy dates are a fave of mine, so I'm secretly hoping the weather stays like this all day. And congratulations to Jordan Troublefield who won the launch giveaway! Yay!

Love,

Michelle

 

Introducing the new One Sweet Day in May!

Holy Moly guys it's here. 

It's been hard to think of exactly what to write here. I haven't had the words really. I have been thinking about this day for literally 7 months and it's finally here. Like a kid on Christmas, I just can' t stop smiling. One Sweet Day in May is my baby and now she's all grown up. This little company is honestly what I think about every second of every day. It hasn't been around too long, but it's my whole heart. I wanted a space that shows my clients exactly who I am and what they can expect from the One Sweet Day in May experience and here it is. 

 Ashlee Proffitt is to thank of all the gorgeousness and when I meet her in November at the Creative @ Heart Conference I will be sure to give her all the hugs I owe her (which is about a million). I first contacted Ashlee back in October and we set a date for March 1st to get started. A whole 5 months away. Yikes! So I set up a little site as a sit in and it worked, it did it's job, but it wasn't me. Well that all changes today my friends and I get to FINALLY share it with you. 

Being branded is a huge thing to do, it's an investment and it really makes you find and learn exactly who you are. And that is just what I needed. I blogged a while back that I was thinking of jumping into full wedding planning and then backed off. Could I be good at it? Definitely. But I want to be great at florals and I felt (still do) that that is where my heart is. I ended up being truly thankful that Ashlee couldn't start my brand until March because it was time I and One Sweet Day in May needed. And what I have is this tiny little spec of the internet that looks and feels like me. I told Ashlee that I was really wanting a mix of Kate Spade inspired details with the romantic feel and devotion to marriage like that of Southern Weddings. And she gave me just that, in my own "One Sweet" way.

For starters, I have logo! A real gorgeous logo that's all mine!!  I thank my lucky stars for Taylor Schumann She is the lovely lady behind this beautiful creation and I just love her. Along with being an incredible calligrapher she has an amazing story of strength and survival over on her blog that you should read. Truly inspiring. Plus the girl's hilarious and keeps me laughing daily through her Facebook and Instagram posts. 

Taylor thank you for giving me your time and talent. My new logo is perfect and I will be putting it on absolutely everything. There are so many other people to thank for making this happen. I honestly was surrounded by the best team of people to bring this to life.

 

Here's a look into what we created through this process starting with my super fun and girly brand board. 

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To Ashlee- Thank you for getting to know me and giving me exactly what I wanted. Thank you for your patience and giving me the tools to take One Sweet Day in May to the next level. Your support, encouragement, and your talent for branding amazes me and I'm so thankful to have been able to work with you. 

 

Andrea Pesce is the one who took all these stunning images of the One Sweet Office and my head shots for the rebrand. Which I can't wait to show more of. I am so thankful for your friendship Andrea. You are such a talented photographer and I love that you have found a niche with creative entrepreneurs. I will cherish these photos forever. We need another coffee date soon.

 

To my industry friends, What would I do without you. Especially Anna and Amy. Owning your own business is weird and different and I'm so thankful to have friends like you who get it. Anna, Thank you for your honesty and suggestions throughout this process. Thank you for your internet/blogging smarts and pragmatic views on things. And Amy thank you for lending your creative eye to every photo text I sent you the past few months. You two were like my secret little team and I'm so lucky to have you both in my life.  Friends like these are so important and I love mine dearly. Whether it's business advice, a website glitch, or sending a virtual high-five, industry friends get you through the worst days and celebrate even your littlest wins with you. It sometimes gets lonely here in this little office of mine and knowing I have a little tribe that are only a text away makes it so much better. 

 

To my family, lifelong, and non-industry friends. Thank you for taking the time to listen to me. I love you guys so much. You all give me your time even when you don't know what the heck I'm talking about. You let me vent and just talk my little heart out (and you all know this girl can talk haha) Thank you for sharing in my excitement every step of the way and putting up with my texts asking your opinions. You were the ones I asked the important questions to. The questions that gave me the answers that really made me understand what I wanted One Sweet Day in May to be. And hearing all of you say "that is so you" was the best feeling. 

 

To Christopher, I love that you thought the old One Sweet Day in May was perfect, but also supported me when I wanted to take it to the next level. Thank you for loving me even when I don't deserve it. I know this whole process has made me a little M.I.A. the past few weeks, but you were a huge piece of the puzzle on the rebrand journey. After all, One Sweet Day in May started with you. This wouldn't exist if it wasn't for you. I know it's hard to understand sometimes what what'm doing with little business of mine, but thank you for letting me follow my dreams, even if if means the house is a disaster thanks to my crazy ideas. Thank you for bringing me dinner and snacks when I work well into the night. Thank you for being patient with me when I asked you a thousand questions and made you listen to all my website content to get it perfect. Your honesty is something I will always need. I couldn't do any of this without your support and understanding, so thank you and I'm very grateful I get to walk through life with you. I love you very much. 

 

And last but definitely not least I want to thank Ashley and Tyler Herrinton of The Herrintons. They created my fun little promo video and were so patient when I messed up almost every sentence...side note, speaking while being filmed is a little terrifying haha. I am obsessed with my video and quite honestly have watched it about a dozen times just this morning and have texted Ashley with almost nothing but celebration emojis, but they are so talented and my video portrays my business perfectly! I love them so much and be sure to check out the video over on my about page. 

 

Tomorrow I'll be doing a little Friday Introductions post for those of your that are new around here. And there will also be a super fun giveaway with some of my favorite things that you're not going to want to miss. Thank you for all the texts, phone calls, and sweet emails this week, y'all are the best! 

Welcome to the new One Sweet Day in May. I hope you love it as much as I do. 

Image by Andrea Pesce Photo.